Joseph “Larry” Barder, age 69, of Darien.  Vietnam War Veteran.  Beloved husband of Barbara, nee Zilic.  Loving father of Joe and Mike (Rose).  Devoted grandfather of Violet and Jonas.  Dear brother, brother-in-law and uncle to many.  Visitation 3-9pm Friday December 7^th at Hallowell & James Funeral Home, 301 75^th St., Downers Grove, where funeral service will be held 8pm Friday evening.  Interment private.  In lieu of flowers, donations for a future memorial would be appreciated.  Funeral info 630-964-6500