Thomas Michael Zahorik, age 39, died suddenly on January 20, 2024 in Cali Colombia. He had just married the beautiful Luciana Gomez Pulgarin, in Cali, Colombia on January 13. Cali was a special place for Tom. He lived there from 2009-2015, teaching at an International Baccalaureate school and had many friends there. Tom was living in Evanston, IL and worked as an IT specialist. He had planned to bring his new bride back to Evanston.
Tom was born on March 15, 1984 in Evanston, the son of Janet McCauley and Michael Zahorik and leaves behind his brother Jesse (Jennifer), sister Meggie (Taylor) Lantz, niece Willow, sister Marie Therese, youngest brother Michael, step mother Barb Zahorik along with grandparents Ed and Joan Zahorik, uncle Mark (Elena) Zahorik, aunts Lisa Bower and Molly Zahorik, uncle Bob McCauley, aunt Molly McCauley, step father Fred Kraenzle and many great aunts, uncles and cousins.
Tom was intelligent and curious, kind and empathetic. He grew up in Northfield, graduated from New Trier High School in 2003 and attended several colleges pursuing his interest in anthropology. He traveled extensively in Latin America, went to Cali to learn Spanish and ended up becoming a teacher there. He was passionate about music, a self taught pianist with a keen interest in bebop era and latin jazz music. Tom was a co-founder of a jazz club in Cali, Punto Barre, the finest live music club in a city renowned for salsa and dancing. Tom also loved to cook, inspired by both his Mom, Janet, and Emeril LaGasse, beginning his journey to becoming fantastic chef at the young age of 13. Among his friends he was the resident grill master and was renowned for his breakfasts and desserts. He was constantly searching for his next culinary challenge.
Tom was an avid Chicago Bulls fan, a lifelong spectator of his father and grandfather’s game of handball and enjoyed lifting weights. He was a devoted son to his mother Janet, as well as a loving grandson to her parents Tom and Elizabeth McCauley. He loved dogs, no matter the number of shoes lost to them. He was proud to have worked with his Uncle Mark at Keeley Asset Management in a variety of roles and took after his maternal Grandfather, Porter, in his aptitude for math. During any trip to Chicago, Tom loved breakfasts with his Grandfather Ed at Walker Bros Pancake House, absorbing the history of our family and polishing his jokes. His Grandmother Joan was seen as a constant source of support for his creative endeavors, which always gave him the drive to continue improving.
Tom spent most of his childhood in Northfield, producing a nearly endless amount of stories of a wonderful teenage life spent with his brother Jesse and his closest childhood friends, Walker, Brian, and Doug. Tom lived with his father and step mother Barb and his little baby sister Marie Therese in La Grange during 8th grade, graduating from Park Junior High. Tom lived in Los Angeles during his first year in college, then moved to Florida to attend junior colleges. He continued his college years at DePaul in Chicago, then returned to Florida where he attended New College with Walker.
His story would not be complete without the mention of Jim Loftus and Jim’s son Shane, a one time roommate and constant partner in crime for Tom. Jim became a mentor and dear friend who Tom often stayed with when visiting Shane.
In Colombia Tom was fortunate enough to find a second family in Andres, his mother Doris (his “Cali mom”), and his dear friend Gio. Very few things brought Tom more joy than to host his friends and family in Colombia, skillfully planning trips tailored to the interests of the visitor and his deep knowledge of the country and its history. Colombia was truly a second home for Tom, and his favorite place to be outside of Chicago.
After many years away from Chicago and his family, one of Tom’s favorite periods was in 2014 when he and his brothers would use Playstation and voice chat as a way to keep their relationship strong. Countless hours were spent laughing and talking with Michael and Jesse—he often reflected on the joy that time brought him.
When Tom returned from Colombia he was proud to have an opportunity to work alongside his cousin, Dr. Juliet Bradley, putting his love for Spanish and Latin culture to work in serving Chicago’s Southwest side community doing outreach work in HIV prevention and LGBTQ advocacy.
Tom’s most difficult qualities to convey in writing were his wit and sense of humor. But if you knew him, there is no doubt you have your own experience to share.
Life was not always easy for Tom but he persevered and had found so much joy with the girl of his dreams, Luciana. It is heartbreaking for all of us that his life ended so suddenly at his happiest moment.
We are establishing a “Tommy Zahorik Tierradentro/Fundacion Musical El Colectivo de Cali Scholarship Foundation” – A foundation providing scholarships to Cali students studying music, academics and cooking. Contact Mike Zahorik if you wish to donate (m_zahorik@yahoo.com). The foundation will be managed by Mike and Andrés Tobón.
There will be a visitation at Hallowell & James Funeral Home, 1025 W. 55th St., Countryside on Sunday, January 28 from 1-5 pm including words of remembrance at 4:00.
Information: 708-352-6500
He was a bright light in this world.
What an accomplished man, and all around nice guy. Loved by so many. RIP Tommy, you will be missed and never forgotten.
Mike,
Sorry for your loss.
My prayers for you and your family
Dennis
Sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Many Prayers are on their way for a heavenly journey.
Patrick Riley Michiels
Mike and family,
I am so sorry about the passing of your son. How sad. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Tom sounded like an incredible individual and willl surely be missed by those who had knew him.
Tom was a good friend. He was so smart and funny, and he loved fine Italian textiles. He was so good at piano, and he taught me about Latin jazz. One time, he played the piano and did the percussion part simultaneously with his feet. He was truly exceptional, and I’m going to miss him a lot. My condolences to his family and especially his new bride Luciana. I am so sorry for your loss.
Tom lived life to its fullest. So sorry it was cut short.
Janet, Bob, and family,
We want to express our deepest condolences. Just reading about Tom, he lived more “lifetimes” in his short life than most men could ever wish for. Hopefully, one day soon your sadness will be replaced with knowing his legacy will be a spark for the many lives he has touched.
Well said. Thank you for putting into words, the sentiments many of us have had
My condolences to the family, Prayers and Peace of God
Mike and family very sorry for your loss. Many prayers that Tom’s presence and memory will continue.
I can not believe this. He was a good friend, a super intelligent and very kind young man. He loved his grandfather and his family very much. Wherever you are, my friend, I hope you find happiness. I will always remember you, your jokes and your love for Cuban music. Sad day!
I am so so sorry to hear this, my sincerest and mist heart felt condolences for his family. Tom was a dear friend, colleague and fellow music lover. One of the most intelligent, coolest guys I ever knew. I hadn’t seen him in years but we had always kept in touch. Have so many good memories of him, I’m devastated. Fly high brother, and play us your music on that higher plane, we need it X
What an accomplishment man and all-around nice guy. Loved by so many. RIP Tommy. You will be missed and never forgotten.