Barbara J. Stamm
Barbara J. Stamm (nee DeLair) 76, of Burr Ridge, passed away Monday, March 9, 2020 after a long, hard battle with breast cancer. Her tough spirit never stopped fighting; it was only her body that succumbed to the disease.
Born and raised in Willow Springs, Barb married Richard Stamm on October 2, 1965 after the couple met while working at the National grocery store. After the couple married, they lived for a short time in Brookfield before moving to their home in Burr Ridge, just a few blocks from where Barb spent her childhood years.
A 1962 graduate of Lyons Township HS, Barb earned her associates degree from COD. She worked for many years at Edgewood Valley Country Club then Gower School District as an administrative assistant and finally Thor-Shackel Horseradish Co. until she retired.
Through the years Barb and Rich enjoyed snowmobiling, camping, motorcycling and supporting their kids, Jeff (Cindy) Stamm and Vicki (Brian) Truesdale, in their various activities. Barb has always been an avid reader, devouring books by her favorite authors Agatha Christie, Sue Grafton and Jan Karon. Since Rich’s death in 2014, Barb has enjoyed joining her friends at the Pleasantdale Garden Club, monthly bunco gatherings, weekly domino games with her sisters-in-law, Carol Agurkis (Stamm) and Karen (Stamm) Szczypkowski, as well as Tuesday night dinners with the neighbors-many of whom she has known for over 50 years. Barb was a skilled sewist, often gifting stitched items. Her 4 grandkids, Travis and Tyler Stamm and Jacob and Kayla Truesdale, looked forward to her yearly pajama pants creations. Barb also enjoyed visiting with her grandkids, teaching them card games and supporting them in their sporting events too.
Barb wanted everyone to know how hard she fought over the last few years. She appreciated the calls, cards and visits she had over the last several weeks. Barb also kept her keen sense of humor and sarcasm until the very end.
Barb is survived by her Brothers Leo DeLair and Hank DeLair, sisters Janis Rowland and Joy Pernat, step-mother Edna DeLair, several cousins and numerous nieces and nephews.
Visitation 3 to 9pm Thursday, March 12th at Hallowell & James Funeral Home, 1025 W. 55th St., Countryside. Family and friends to gather on Friday, March 13th directly at St. Cletus Catholic Church, 600 W. 55th St., LaGrange for 10am Mass. Interment to follow at Clarendon Hills Cemetery, Darien.
For Funeral Info: 708-352-6500
Sorry sorry for your loss Jeff and Vicki. She’s at peace now and with your dad again.
Dawn
Thank you! and thanks for the picture too
Sorry for your loss, Barb was always fun to be around and is now at peace.
The LaMontos
Thank you!
We grew up together and with brothers Peter & Leo we shared many good times. God Bless.
Cousin: Darrei
thank you!
What a beautiful tribute to your mom! Loved your parents they were such great people! Sending hugs and prayers for your heart to to continue to nurture their memories!
Christy Polaski
Thank you!
So sorry for your loss, Jeff and Vicki. I loved your mom’s quick wit. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Trudy (Wolske) Patten, cousin
Thanks Trudy. Lots of great memories as kids with you guys!
A child is a reflection of their parents and I know Barb was one of a kind because I have had the pleasure of being friends with VICKI for years.
Thanks Carrie!
So sorry for this huge loss, jeff & vicki. I know how close you both were to your parents. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all family members
Thank you!
So sorry for your loss! We have loved getting to know Barb over the last few years while sitting with her at Travis & Ty’s sporting events. You could always count on her for a good conversation and witty humor, she will truly be missed by many! Rest In Peace and hugs from our entire family!
Scott & Birgit Collins
The Stamm family, Please accept my condolences on the passing of your mom and grandmother. It is always so hard to say good bye. I have many fond memories of your parents and only wish I could be there to celebrate Barb’s life with you all. Best regards, Margie Cardy (cousin)
Thank you Margie!
Our best to you at this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.