Raymond “Ray” Adams
Raymond “Ray” Adams passed away at home on December 3, 2022.
Ray graduated from Morton West High School and studied Pharmaceutical Sciences at the University of Illinois. After graduation he worked as retail pharmacist for 39 years.
Ray is survived by his wife, Barbara; children, Lauren (Ryan) Maus and Peter (Lisette) Clarke; three grandchildren, Ellie, Katie, and Annie (who referred to him as “Ray Ray”); his sister, Sharon Barth; his Frawley and Sarros siblings: and many nieces and nephews. Ray was preceded by his first wife, Judy; parents, Raymond and Isabelle Adams; brother-in-law, Bruce Barth.
Ray was born into a small family but married into two large families who were blessed and thrilled to embrace him. He enjoyed history, golfing, reading, biking and grilling. He had a wickedly dry sense of humor, was generous of spirit, fierce in love, and loyal in friendship. Ray will be dearly missed by his family and friends.
Graveside service and inurnment at Queen of Heaven Cemetery in Hillside, Illinois will be planned for Spring 2023.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the Lewy Body Dementia Association at www.lbda.org/donors.
Arrangements entrusted to Hallowell & James Funeral Home, Countryside at 708-352-6500.
Ray, you were the best brother-in-law a girl could ever hope for….actually, the best friend. You were wonderful to me and Theresa (and the best Godfather) while she was growing up. I have so many pictures of her as a child because of you! We did so many things together like trips to Disney, the Shore and Ireland. You were so generous to be the token male with 6 of us girls on mpost trips and the “designated drinker” in Ireland….took one for the team on that one!
We will miss your humor and laughter as well as your perspective on so many things. I so enjoyed our golf outings, many with you, me and Kathy. The many BBQ’s and get-togethers. The way you cared for Judy as she was dying cemented you into our hearts forever. Your love and kindness had no bounds. You were such a kind and loving man! I am so glad you met and fell in love with Barb and had a second round of happiness in your life. Barb, Lauren and Peter (as well as Barb’s siblings, spouses, nieces and nephews) filled you with fun, more golf and laughter…but most of all, more love. Your heart was so big that you embraced Lauren and Peter like your own kids and loved them fiercely. Lauren and Ryan made you a grandpa. How lucky was that? Joy you couldn’t even imagine. We love them all and were so happy for you and your new family. They had you for 20 years but were so generous to continue to share you with the Frawleys. We will be forever grateful for that!
Until we meet again, my friend, may God hold you in the palm of His hand. ~Love, Rosemary
Lewy Body took hold of you way to young and Barb didn’t bat an eyelash…she always did right by you and did what had to be done. Her love covered you like a blanket, she protected you and made sure you had the best of care. We’re not all so lucky in life to have the tha kind of love and care!
Ray was an awesome brother in law! He had a heart of gold, dry witty humor, and the patience of a saint!
You were unlucky to get Lewy body, especially so young. But, you were very lucky to have had 2 wives who loved you with all their hearts. Hope you had a Learjet straight to heaven. You’ve earned. Take good care and watch over Barb from up there. We all miss you